On the life and death of a spouse, part one
Until lately, it’s never occurred to me that I haven’t written about my life with Richard and I’m not entirely sure why...
Read More“Of all Andrew’s qualities, being gay was the least interesting.”
Editor’s Note: I see no need to set up this piece, as it’s content stands all on it’s own, and I don’t want my...
Read MoreThreat Made Good: Minnesota Governor Vetoes Gay Rights Bill
He said he was going to do it. Gov. Pawlenty of Minnesota promised he’d never sign the bill in progress that would give surviving...
Read MoreJust Breathe (Losing a Loved One)
It’s only been a few hours since I watched Alex die right in front of me. He would have been my brother-in-law if I were married. I...
Read MoreThe Right to Die
For whatever reason, I have been surrounded by death my entire life. My father was a homicide detective for the city of Cleveland. More...
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